{"id":1127,"date":"2021-05-16T23:56:43","date_gmt":"2021-05-17T06:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drduru.com\/kimfieldsfan\/?p=1127"},"modified":"2021-05-16T23:56:45","modified_gmt":"2021-05-17T06:56:45","slug":"answers-to-lingering-mystery-from-living-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/drduru.com\/kimfieldsfan\/2021\/05\/16\/answers-to-lingering-mystery-from-living-single\/","title":{"rendered":"At Last, Some Answers to a Lingering Mystery from Living Single"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/drduru.com\/kimfieldsfan\/2018\/01\/11\/hulu-fills-20-year-gap-with-living-single\/\">I took 20 years to see the season finale to Living Single<\/a>. Kim Fields waited 23 years to provide fans with deeper insight into her absence from that season finale. On-line magazine Bustle got the scoop in <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/entertainment\/kim-fields-netflix-the-upshaws-living-single-divorce\" target=\"_blank\">an interview published on Kim&#8217;s 52nd birthday<\/a>. Here is the key segment:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-default is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8216;My life at that moment was not what you would expect. I left\u00a0<em>Living Single<\/em>\u00a0a few episodes shy of completing the final season because the work, the process, and everything else didn\u2019t feel the same for me. I was at that point either divorced, or about to be divorced. I started a production company, and we had all these great projects but no deals.<\/p><p>I went through a stage where I completely shut down. I had these blackout drapes in my house, and I closed the drapes and stayed in the bed for about two weeks, maybe longer. I kept running down my resume to God: I\u2019m a tither, I\u2019m a worshiper, I\u2019m faithful, I\u2019m a good person, I was a good kid \u2014 all the things that should not equal me being here.I didn\u2019t claim depression, but if I\u2019m being real with myself, I\u2019m sure there was a little bit of that there.&#8217;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I read those lines several times to let the words sink in. I long suspected that some beef may have erupted between Kim and members of the show. However, the subsequent years never proved out those suspicions. I never imagined that a personal crisis could be at the center of Kim&#8217;s disappearance from the set.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am so thankful that Kim found a way through and kept her faith. She clearly came out of of this episode and phase of her life even stronger and more determined. Perhaps it even provided the seed and fuel for the successes to come. Indeed, later in the interview Kim alludes to the spirit-filled renaissance:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8216;I went outside and looked at the mountains and the sky, and that was me looking at God\u2019s work. I said, \u201cI come from this stock.\u201d It\u2019s not like I\u2019ve never been severely disappointed since then, but now I can recognize it and to a certain extent, I know how to deal with that disappointment.&#8217;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I highly encourage Kim Fields fans to read <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/entertainment\/kim-fields-netflix-the-upshaws-living-single-divorce\" target=\"_blank\">the entire interview<\/a>. Bustle is doing a series featuring women&#8217;s stories when they were 28 years old. These stories serve as points of inspiration for women who face similar turning points in their lives.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I took 20 years to see the season finale to Living Single. 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